BANISHING:
PRACTICE
EXCERPTS
FROM
CLEAN SWEEP:
PRACTICES
& ACTIONS TO BANISH PROBLEMS IN YOUR LIFE
BODY / ENVIRONMENT PRACTICES
Goal: Banishing all problems of the
body through breath and thus power control.
Needed: A quiet place outside,
preferably under a tree surrounded by nature.
Practice:
• Sit on a blanket
or cloth, make sure you are calm and comfortable and are wearing
comfortable clothing.
• Breathe deeply
for a minute or two, just let all your problems and ailments slip away
for a moment. Close your eyes, relax, concentrate on the naturally calm
rhythm of your breathing
• When you feel you
have reached a calm level of ‘natural’ breathing, begin to focus on our
in breath and out breath.
• When ready to
begin the banishing, count you in breath to 5, hold the breath for 5,
then exhale for 5, hold for 5 and repeat.
• When you are
comfortable with this 5/5/5/5 rhythm, you may add a mental image: With
each out breath, see your expelled breath as grayish smoke-like energy,
leaving your body and being absorbed by the nature around you. See each
in breath as filled with healing light, pulled from the lovely natural
energy around you.
• Continue this as
long as you like, until you feel refreshed.
• When done, make
thanks to the divine and nature, as you will, then go.
Feng Shui Home Banishing
Feng Shi is the ‘art’ of keeping the
energy or ‘chi’ flowing in a positive manner through your home. It is
believed that this ‘chi’ also flows through your body, thus keeping the
flow of energy positive and not ‘stagnant’ is the key to both physical
and environmental health. While this art is Chinese, similar arts can
be found in India and elsewhere. Feng shui is the art of ‘fixing’ chi
issues, acupuncture and acupressure is the art of fixing chi issues in
the body. It is believed that the environment and body are connected
through the flow of chi, which negative chi in the environment leads to
illness.
Goal: To ‘fix’ the areas of your
environment that are leading to energy (chi) stagnation of are creating
‘negative chi.’
Note: Clearly Feng Shui is a complex
and ancient art form and cannot be fully addressed here. Yet here are
some basic ‘fixes’ that can help anyone banish negative energy and
stagnation.
Procedure: De-clutter and ‘fix’ your
home!
In your living room: Arrange seating
with care, avoid sharp angles and people should be facing the door. If
not possible, have a mirror doing so. Circles are better than angles!
In your home office: Keep your back
to a wall if possible, your back shouldn’t be to the door.
Stairs: Stairs that lead directly to
the door are not good; they let all the chi flow out. Place something
like a crystal or small mirror over the doorway or a table with nice
items on it between the stairway and the door.
In the bathroom: Keep the toilet seat
down and all drains stopped up.
Bedrooms:
Use room just for
bedroom, not as an office or other thing. Your bed should not be in
front of the door.
Get rid of all clutter under the bed and remove
that TV!
Clutter and piles: Get rid of them in
and out of the house! They will get in the way of chi flow. Clean
out drawers, cupboards, attics, garages and all rooms.
Eliminate
EVERYTHING that is not needed, that is broken, or which doesn’t still
fit. Even if you cant ‘see’ the clutter, it is affecting you.
.
In the kitchens: Keep the kitchen
clean, keep all pointed utensils pit away, and use all the burners
regularly.
Handy tools:
Use mirrors: To keep energy
circulating about your home, but don’t put them facing your bed or
anywhere you want to relax.
Use crystals (often hung on strings)
to redirect chi or stop it from ‘draining’. For example, if your back
and front door line up, this is bad. Chi comes in and leaven, but you
want healthy energy to stay! Hanging a crystal over the door helps this.
Color: This is crucial in Feng Shui.
Make sure the colors you choose ‘fee good’ and are energetically
appropriate for the rooms they are in. Color therapy has been proven to
help people and some colors seem to heal more than others.
Plants: These are great chi
generators and can ‘soften’ a hard spot or help keep chi flowing.
HEART PRACTICES
Letting go of the Brambles (Emotional
Pain)
Pain and pleasure imprint on our
emotional minds more than anything else. All our emotional, whether
they are positive or negative, cause us pain or pleasure for the most
part. Anger can be pleasurable, love can be painful. Logic is not
present in this discussion! Yet, the truth is that while we hold onto
pleasure and those things that bring us pleasure, they do not cause the
heartache and sometimes trauma that emotional pain causes. In romance,
it is not the friendly breakups we remember or obsess over, it is the
horrible ones. Jobs we leave voluntarily do not obsess us as much as
getting fired
Goal: To let go of painful or
traumatic emotional experiences, to banish them from our mental
tape-loops and dreams!
Procedure:
• Find ALL physical
and electronic traces of the pain-causing person/situation, no matter
how small and gather them together and thrown out. Even email and docs
should be deleted and even deleted from the deleted items file!
• NOTHING should
physically exist when you are done that even remotely reminds you of
the situation/person/pain.
• Now, in a calm
place and time, eyes closed, visualize this:
• You are holding a
thorn-covered branch, a bramble. It hurts, it causes pain and agony,
your hand is bleeding! This bramble is the painful person/situation.
Name it as such. Curse it! It is old and tired and dead but still you
hang on to it!
• You have tried to
let go, you hand begins to heal, but then you grip it again. Again you
feel pain, again you bleed!
• Now, breathe the
deeply. Silently forgive yourself, forgive the others, and forgive
everyone involved. This is the price you must pay to let go.
• Now, breathe
deeply, feel the pain leave you with each deep breath.
• Slowly let go of
the bramble. See it fall to the ground. Slowly it sinks into the ground
and becomes part of the earth.
• See your hand
heal, the blood disappear. The pain is gone.
• Smile. Time to
move on. You have awoken from a bad dream.
• Get up, go out
and have fun!
Note: Repeat if necessary.
Mirroring anger/love
When confronted with another’s anger
or the anger erupting from within, there are ways to mirror and cam
such anger. When immersed in anger, it is hard to stop and think and
harder not to react with anger. Anger and hatred spread, one angry
person can infect a whole room with negative emotions. This banishing
is useful when confronting unacceptable anger or hatred directed at you
or it can be used to help yourself confront this demon and cam the
fires.
Goal: To deflect, calm and eventually
banish the anger of another or your own anger.
Procedure:
• When you are
confronted by someone who is escalating in anger, do NOT react to the
anger. Visualize yourself as a mirror. Calm, cool, merely reflecting
that anger back to the other.
• Listen to what
the person is yelling. As they begin to escalate, begin to talk to them.
• IMPORTANT: make
sure your TONE of voice EXACTLY matches theirs. You will almost hear a
‘click’ as you match their tone.
• All your words
should be reasonable and NOT angry or even addressing the anger. You
may say something like “You seem angry. What can I do to help you with
this?” etc.
• As you continue
talking, after you link tones, slowly lower your voice.
• The angry person
will (!) also begin to lower his or her voice.
• Speak lower and
lower in tone, positive things. Then sit down if it is appropriate.
• The person
attacking will either break away and leave or will calm down.
• Afterwards, see
the anger as red energy flow through you both, into the ground.
NOTE: This technique can also be used
with yourself by using an actual mirror.
When you are furious or filled with
hate, before dumping it out of yourself, find a mirror (bathrooms are
perfect) and visualize your reflection AS THE ONE YOU HATE. Begin tour
angry rant and slowly lower your tone until the worst of the anger
drains away.
Pause, breathe deeply. When ready,
confront the object of your anger with CALM displeasure. Begin by
stating your feeling and explaining why.
MIND PRACTICES
Source of thought Meditation Banishing
Banish Compulsive Thoughts
Goal: To examine your actual thought
process and discover the root or unhealthy or unhappy ‘compulsive’
thought-streams and banish them.
Procedure:
• Sit in a quiet
place and meditate. Make sure you will not be interrupted for a while
and that noting is pressing at the moment.
• Close your eyes,
relax, and breathe deeply.
• When you are
calm, ‘pull back’ from your thoughts and observe them. Let your
thoughts just drift in and out of your mind. They will arise
spontaneously: Doing laundry, work tasks, a shopping list, thoughts
about family, strange images from movies and TV…. let them drift.
• As they arise, it
is crucial that you NOT attach to them nor ‘follow’ them. Ex: ‘Thought:
Oh, I have to make dinner tonight! Follow: What shall I make? Pasta
sounds good. Ok, Ill need sauce and Id better go to the store, Oh, Ill
have to get salad too- that reminds me…. etc.
• When you catch
yourself ‘following’ a line of thought, STOP. Begin observing again.
• As you observe
your thoughts flow by, observe your emotional reactions to them.
• What thoughts
trigger anxiety? Anger? Sadness?
• Where are they
coming from?
• Now, find one
that keeps repeating, that keeps coming back and triggering a bad
feeling.
• Stop that
thought. Examine it. TRACE IT BACK.
• For example,
maybe the thought of shopping causes anxiety. Stop. Trace it backwards-
why does this thought bother you? When did you associate anxiety with
shopping? Trace it back, like a chain.
• It is likely that
one thought will lead back to another to another and so on When you
have reached a place where you feel the anxiety comes from, breathe
deeply in and out.
• Let the anxiety
flow down and out of you. Meditate on this thought. Relax.
• Keep focused on
it until it no longer bothers you.
• Let it go.
Slowing down & Processing-
Banishing Hyper Thought
The hyper-pace of incoming data,
media and so on has speeded up in our culture to such a degree that
people are in constant anxiety just trying to ‘stay on top of’
everything they think and do.
Goal: To slow down your mind and
sanely process ideas, tasks and thoughts so as not to simply REACT to
things without being fully aware or ready to deal with them.
Procedure:
• When feeling
overwhelmed and like your head is going to burst, sit in a quiet place.
Relax. Breathe deeply. Be comfortable. Make sure you are not disturbed.
• Now, withdraw
from the chaos of your mind a bit. Observe your thoughts.
• Do NOT try and
control them, do NOT focus on ANY of them. Do not get ‘hooked’ into
following any of the thoughts. If that happens, stop and begin again.
• Now, simply watch
your thoughts flow by, like they are racing by on a movie screen.
• Breathe deeply.
Slow your breath down. Relax.
• As your breathing
and heart slow, so will the frantic flow of your thoughts.
• Now, count your
thoughts!
• Ex: Oh, I was
late to that meeting! (1) My foot itches. (2) I hope it is sunny
tomorrow (3)
• That is all. Just
count them. When you reach 100, stop.
• Now, let a
thought come. Hold it. Examine it. Deal with it.
• You have banished
that over run and overwhelmed feeling. You have control of your mind,
not the other way around!
• In this way you
can slow the process and focus on the most important
thoughts/plans/needs.
SPIRIT PRACTICES
Incense & Smoke Banishings
Procedures:
• First, choose
incense or ‘smoke’ to banish the area or person- see the ‘banishing
herb list’ at the end of this section for some ideas. Make sure it is
the purest form of incense or herb, especially if the banishing
involves smoking or smudging. Make sure the herbs have not been sprayed
with chemicals, were harvested appropriately etc.
• For smudging, the
herbs should either be wrapped with a cotton thread or dried
completely. For smoking, herbs should be ground up, no stems. For
incense, if pure herbs or resins are used, a self-igniting charcoal is
used.
• If smudging, have
a symbolically appropriate vessel to catch the ashes in. Often a shell
or appropriate pottery bowl is used. Having appropriate symbols on them
is helpful like a symbol of your religion or one of protection.
• For smoking, a
sacred pipe that has been charged should be used. There is a complex
and interesting tradition around Native American sacred pipes and
ceremonies using them- investigate if this is a path that interests you.
Procedure:
• Clear & clean
the area to be banished and yourself. Center yourself.
Meditate/pray/chant etc. If you are doing this for a person, they
should be seated before you. Face either north or east, depending on
your spiritual tradition. (North is the direction of the Earthing, of
Banishing, East the direction of the Dawn, of new beginnings…)
• Light the
herb/incense/smoke- offer it to the heavens with an appropriate
prayer/chant/etc. to deity.
• Offer some to the
earth in a similar manner.
• Offer smoke to
the 4 directions with a prayer/chant etc. (some go: E, S, W, N- some
make a cross and go: E, W, S, N- up to you)
• Inhale; direct
some smoke in/over/around yourself with an appropriate prayer/chant
etc. to purify YOUR mind, heart and body.
• If you are
banishing someone else, do the same for them, with appropriate
prayers/chants etc. Have the person, line by line. Repeat the prayer or
chat with you.
• Declare (and
visualize) the place/person FREE of all negative or evil influences.
• Bury the ashes in
the ground at the end, thanking Mother Earth.
Note: A number of tools can be used
in banishing with smoke.
Tree Banishing
Tree banishing is a very ancient and
pervasive idea that is still widely practiced in a number of places.
The idea is so deeply entrenched even in our culture that we don’t
realize it. Trees are planted near graves of course, but originally
they were planted to keep ghosts away, to purify the area and as a way
to connect with the deceased. Birch trees, seen as banishing ignorance
and evil in ancient Norse tradition and even today are often planted
near schools, though most have forgotten why. We still ‘knock in wood’
for luck, a practice going far back into Pagan cultures where tree
spirits were known as powerful beings to call upon. Today, no one
argues the positive affects trees and forests have on people and the
planet. This banishing practice taps into the idea that trees are
complex energy systems as well as material beings and those they
spiritually purify as well as purify the air.
Practice for personal banishing:
• Find the
healthiest, biggest and nicest tree you can. The kind of tree you use
can symbolically connect with what you want to banish. For weakness you
may want to use an oak for example. See the chart at the end of this
section for ideas.
• First hold the
tree with both hands and put your forehead on it. Close your eyes. Open
yourself to the tree. See if it is the ‘right’ tree for you. Maybe even
‘ask’ the tree for help in banishing!
• If this is the
right tree, then turn around and lean against the tree with your full
spine against it OR sit at the base of the tree in this way.
• Pray/chant etc.
and breathe deeply and rhythmically. Fully relax you whole body. As you
breathe out, see the negative forces flow out of you and down into the
tree’s roots. As you breathe in, feel and see the energy of the tree
flow from the leaves down into the tree and into you.
• Do this for as
long as possible.
• When done,
pray/chant etc, acknowledge that the negative force is GONE.
• Hold the tree and
thank it and the Mother Earth.
• Leave some token
of yourself buried at the base of the tree.
Procedure for Planting Banishing
A similar banishing can be done by
planting trees (or other important banishing plants like rosemary or
holly) in areas that are negative or have negative influences.
• First, choose the
right banishing plant or tree (see the charts at the end of this
section) and make sure they are not saturated with chemicals, are
healthy and you know how/where to plant them so they will prosper.
• Next, consider
planting a charm, amulet or special stone or item significant to what
is being banished in the home with the plant. Trouble with a neighbor,
for example, might be banished by planting the nasty note from the
neighbor in a hole with a holly bush facing the neighbor’s house! If
you do decide to plant something with the tree or bush, charge it
before hand.
• Clear the area
and yourself before the planting.
• Have everything
(compost, spade, water, pre-dug hole) ready before you begin.
• Bless the area
and operation with a prayer/chant etc.
• Plant the tree,
bush or plant,
• As you push the
dirt down with both hands, pray/chant etc exactly what you want this
plant to do- visualize it happening.
• Water the plant
thoroughly. Thank it and the Mother Earth.
• Water and
pray/chant etc. over the plant for the next three days.
• The last day,
pray/chant etc- declare the bad energy GONE, repelled etc.
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